Hair products for thick, frizzy hair?

My hair is reeeally thick and frizzy and kind of in the middle of wavy and curly. When I wash it, it frizzes immediately so I have to sleep on it and then it looks ok in the morning but poofs up again when I brush it. What are some shampoos/ conditioners or any other hair products I should use to minimize the frizz and keep my hair tamed with a softer look?( I don't want volume, I have TOO much!)